When I first met Tom, you would have had a hard time convincing me this moment would ever come! Tom is the masculine, athletic, popular, alpha-male type, and he definitely didn't seem all that interested in the idea at first. The more I got to know him, though, the more apparent it was Tom's a totally laid-back, easygoing guy and might actually be willing to take things further with us; he's open to new experiences and confident enough in himself to try new things - he is, after all, the football jock that agreed to take a shot at joining the cheerleading squad to, "throw girls in to the air", and ended up being so good at it he got a cheerleading scholarship! If we could get him to try this new experience and take a shot at some guy/guy fun, I had no doubt he'd excel at this, too!