@ manu, I asked Spencer about it and he laughed. Who does that?? He said very sarcastically that he abused Phillip. Who does that?? These are serious accusations being made against you. I wouldn’t be laughing. We’ll see what happens tho. The truth will come out.

@elmtree

I can’t understand it myself but it’s hard because both of my sisters and a friend were in bad relationships. My sisters both managed to get out of their although it took quite a while for my older sister because she had to see everything from another perspective. My friend, on the other hand, was not so lucky and lost her life three years ago. As for the douche of a husband who killed her? The coward took his own life that same day. She died before the ambulance got to her and he died at the hospital. The worst of it is that he basically left their child without a mother AND a father. -__-

Meant to type “Absolutely horrible.” in my last comment.

Listened to a little of the vids. If what Phillip says is true, just can’t understand why someone would stay with an abuser. I know it happens but don’t get it…

@Schlomo: Phillip says there are many people who witnessed his bruises, such as people at his job (which include times he couldn’t come to work because of injuries, having to cancel shoots), friends and family with whom he confided, etc. None of this can be spoken of by him or them yet because of his pending court date, so we’ll have to wait until after their testimony before the public knows anything. But Phillip’s account has the ring of truth to me where Spencer’s does not. Spencer’s account just doesn’t make sense, and as Judge Judy likes to say, ‘if it doesn’t make sense, it’s not true.’

About an hour and a half’s worth of video…not sure I have the time right now to listen to it all. I’ll admit to not being up to speed on this whole situation, but last I read it was pretty much a case of his word against the other’s. Porndog, who are the others corroborating Aubrey’s story or where are their stories told?

We don’t know for sure what happened , all I can see is that SPENCER ENDED UP BEING STABBED NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND!!!
Spencer has my support , I never liked Philip

Dude sounds like a douche bag. On top of that he was probably juicing. I never liked the guy. He’s just not attractive to me personally. I only clicked on this update to see Phillip. It’s unfortunate that gay men play heterosexual roles in their relationship. He played the abused woman, but you’re not a woman. You’re a man regardless of sexual position. It’s one thing to be submissive, but know where to draw the line. Hopefully this guys career in porn goes down the toilet.

Thanks for the link, I didn’t know things had gotten so ugly between them

Yesterday, I watched an interview of Phillip Aubrey about his life before and after Spencer, and you guys really should watch it. It takes time to get thru all the video segments, but the last 3 or 4 really describe the ogre that is Spencer and how he practically destroyed Phillip.

Violence in Gay Relationships: Phillip’s Story
http://www.queermagazineonline.com/articles/item/5555?fb_comment_id=fbc_10150367183795169_19032505_10150367961980169

Thank you for saying that, because I certainly was going to. I think it’s more than insensitive considering that Phillip’s court date is approaching soon.

No, you’re not alone! Granted, NDB invested resources in making this and it was clearly filmed before these two went ballistic on one another, but seeing them playing chained-up-doggie is really just kinda icky at this point.

Absolutely. Obviously a studio isn’t going to shelf a video it has already paid for, but the timing is insensitive and the power play disturbing (based on the pics). A new low for NDS.