You know – I wasn’t singling you out, just calling it like I see it.

LOL SO true!

Ha, dude, I think you misunderstood my comment. You can be as mean as you want to be and you don’t need to explain your behavior to me or anyone–it’s nothing we haven’t seen or encountered at the local bar Friday night.

PS – yes.. that makes me a crazy fucker.

I fuck like I write…

Hold up, 8 inches?

Tell me more about yourself… it’s for science god damn it!

You have a child? I’m even more impressed with you than I already am.

For those of you who can’t seem to wrap your thick skulls around the antics in these threads:

We get together to dissect what we see – poke fun where we can, and generally have fun with it. There is a crowd who seems to swing from the bullshit laid down as if it were the holy grail, and seem to get butt hurt at any suggestion there is a ton of bullshit under the backstory. Really who the fuck cares, it’s porn. You tell me your straight, and doing this for money.. ok, you’ll have to excuse me if my eyes happen to notice you are A) In supreme denial. B) Delusional. C) Obviously being used to sell an illusion. OR D) Actually sucking at life so badly you really ARE sucking dick for money because you are to lazy and dense to find a real job.

There have been precious few REAL examples of item “D”, at least those that went on to do gay scenes. They are pretty easily identified, as it was maybe one or two scenes and you never saw them again. It’s the same pretty much everywhere, with the exception of ass clowns like Jimmy Johnson – who really did actually suck at life and – well blah blah blah.

We get the title “Mean Girls” for pointing out the obvious and having some fun with it, I am okay with that. Bitches if you REALLY take all this bullshit that seriously, you need to be medicated. In some cases maybe even institutionalized. It really isn’t that serious.

Gay guys get bored and talk mad shit, sometimes inject truth, often bedazzle it with humor. Alert the media. If my fun gets in the way of your delusion, I suggest you do the logical thing and block my ass. It really is that simple. BAM no more NNNY and life is a pretty picture again. Lookit you bein all pro active in protecting your dream. I won’t miss you because chances are I wasn’t here for you to begin with.

As for the rest of you fuckers, you can look forward to more of my unbridled bullshit. At least until such time as I get weak between the ears and boyfriend up again… at which point for every missing post some lucky fucker is catching 8″ of ME in his ass. YES.. think about that.

So that’s why my closeted ex was such a gargler, lol!

LMMFAO!

Human sexuality is a fascinating thing. When you grow up in a “nuclear” family situation you think of sexuality in pretty black and white terms, especially if it is overlaid with religious constructs. And then some of us find out we are a little different because we like boys instead of girls, and some girls like girls. Over time, for some not long, for others years or never, you come to grips with who you are. And then you start reading porn blogs and not much makes sense. I’ve reached the stage where I’m happy with “I am what I am” and that life is pretty good. But I’m keen to know more about how others are what they are and how they manage being more than a little different. What I do not accept is hypocrisy and I will always call that out and be a critical cunt (to some) when I see it. That is why I appreciate and enjoy the Tea. To some it is gossip. To me, it helps to reveal the scope and mosiac of sexuality (as well as being a bit of fun).

I agree. I can understand the lack of career choice after making stupid life choices. Examples immediately coming to mind are Derek, Jake Davis, Dennis West. Life is cruel that way, but we all are supposed to learn the rules, both legal and social as we grow up so one reaps what one sows. But I have difficulty understanding other situations. I’d be happy to learn more.

I cannot for the life of me, even begin to believe they many of these GF wives, which always are partnered with conservitibe or homophobic models might be okay with what is going on with a career choice other if they have no prospects, like Derek, who with all his felonies at 18, has doomed his work prospects for his entire life depending on state. I think they make it work somehow because they are cognizant of what he can and can’t do. And if my source is correct, she has also worked as an escort at one point since one of his ads did say him and woman as a couple was an option.

I believe many of the models are lying to their gf, and when outed, the gf believes them. Another thing I’ve seen, are lavendar relationships like Sean Cody tanner and his gf and Sean Cody David and his.

Yaaaas girl! Live that gold star truth’ I fucked me a closeted man and POOF! There went my career!

Thank you! The anonymity online allows me to walk in the valley of ambiguity and release some “details” of my work that other avenues have not permitted, or accepted. Funny how that happened on a porn site rather than all the MMA places I used to frequent. It’s really funny since gayporn and porn in general are such indicators for what our mainstream
Culture is and it’s connections to identity politics is astounding at times, as if porn is some sort of litmus test on where we are as a society in the states . If you look at tea spilled here vs tea spillled in Europe, you’d be surprised how they vary and that may be tied to how we as Americans carry ourselves, and in regards to LGTBQ, it’s not pleasant at times.