At least Randy’s got a full ‘SKIN and is UNCUT, he’s awesome!

Well , if you like caricatures than he is the right choice for you. It also seems that we do not watch the same Sean Cody because I cannot see anything that you are mentioning. Only models in average even much worse than Randy.

Aww… You’re welcome. :) And thank you for being so nice to us fans.

Thank you sooo much!! You don’t sound like a maniac lol that makes me happy: :)

Hey, Randy! You’re truly an amazing performer. I really enjoyed this scene. And I’m serious with my love for your dick (I hope I don’t sound like a maniac. LOL!). Hope to see you on another scene real soon.

Lol. I’m usually the “Ignore it. This too shall pass.” type. But he caught me on a good day.

I’m a Marine – believe me I understand! We just have different methods to deal with it.

At some point you just get tired of dealing with bullshit.

You were frighteningly fluent in it! 😳

I figured if you can incessantly pester and badger people, I might as well speak your language. And that language is troll.

My emotional issues are fine. You should check your mental issues. And perhaps enroll in a remedial English class. You appear to be having trouble with your comprehension skills.

Have a blessed day. Yes, even atheists can do with a blessing or two.

Thanks ;)

I see that you are continuing with your never-ending-story. I will not read or respond to it. I am done and have explained myself thoroughly and concisely. But perhaps your writing will help you work through those emotional issues that you have so, some day, you can move on with your life. I can not work through your emotional issues for you.

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I’m sorry you’re such an insensitive simpleton that you can’t see how writing out a slur is offensive. As I said before, I’m sure if a model such as Phillip or Jerome saw what you wrote they would not be offended. They’d be more upset about someone calling them unattractive, or talking about their body. It doesn’t matter how you think you were using it. It was brought to your attention that the word was uncalled for and you still used it. And instead of apologizing for using it, you made excuse after excuse. You’re still making excuses and rationalizations. Because you don’t care. If Child B pokes Child A, and child A says “That bothers me, please don’t do that.” and Child B goes on to poke Child A several more times, the intent is clear. PEOPLE WITH COMMON SENSE DON”T USE SLURS TO PROMOTE RACIAL INCLUSIVITY. How hard is that for you to understand? You choose not to understand, because your ego is out of control. They should be doing case studies about you in psychology classes.

Continue to think you’re doing something good. Continue to think that any of these models are reading or believing your garbage. Continue to think you’re actually making a difference in how people conduct themselves here. Because really, this idea that you’re an avenging porn angel is all you have. Nobody is buying the crap you’re selling, but by all means, keep peddling your flimsy, tired wares anyway.

Perhaps there are things you are not getting, as well. The “N” word. HMMM, I wonder what that “N” word is? N***er. I wonder what that spells. It spells the “N” word. What is the “N” word? Do you not get that? I have written the actual word by playing games and pretending I have not written the word. If I write “the N word”, you are seeing the actual word in you mind. If I write n***er, you are seeing the actual word in your mind. I can not undo that ONE day for you, that you are so hung up on. Even though you KNOW I was not using that word disparagingly. AND have I done it since? What do you want to do with me now? Should I be killed, or can you let it go, just as you have no problem letting go of the guy who disapproved of a Sean Cody performer because his skin was “too dark. Or do you need to keep chasing the tail of this? Do you want to keep chewing the cud of it?

The word that you give, “fat”, is not a good example for the rest of your grievance. A person is not usually BORN to be fat. It is something that happens. I would NEVER condemn someone for becoming fat, and feel that it would be wrong for anyone else to. I would feel compassion. I remember when Curtis gained some weight. I believe I wrote that I hoped he was okay, and I believe I mentioned his weight gained had me worried, which it did. Weight gain can suggest that one is eating their feelings, sometimes. It can mean health issues (thyroid), stress, certain drugs, etc. “Ugly” is a better word. Ugly is a word that just exists. I look at you and tell you that you are ugly and direct that word that just exists AT you. Do you see a difference between a word that just exists, and that word being directed AT you? I have experienced that your need is to twist things all around in all sorts of directions, to satisfy your agenda. BUT, the question requires a yes or a no, and I’m sure you see the difference.

I believe that it is not only wrong but inhumane to fault someone for how they were BORN to look or be (i.e. gay). I think it is horrible that there are people who fault you for being BORN to have dark skin. And if we were out together, and someone sought to condemn you for your skin color, OH WOW would they hear from me. I might seem really insulting to the racist, the poor dear. I might say mean things to him, the poor, poor dear. I believe that your right to not be condemned for being BORN with dark skin takes precedence over a racist’s believed right to condemn you for having been BORN. And I can not say it any simpler than that. You either get that, or you don’t. My sense of you is that there will be a BUT, followed by lots of words. I feel we are done and that I have been MORE than patient and generous with you. If you want to continue rehashing, I will write that I see you have posted again, and that will be all that I will write. I most likely will not read it because I can not imagine what newness you can bring to your grievances. I get it, you want me to not be me. I will not seek to explain myself to you any more in any way, for I do not know how else I could. My hope is that I am the worst annoyance that you ever have in your life, and if so, you will have a good, good life. Or as Bette would say, A GOOTD life.

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You still don’t get it. At all. If you want to send positive vibes and rainbows to the performers, there’s nothing wrong with that. But just because you perceive a comment to be negative and damaging to a model’s psyche, doesn’t mean it is. I’ve posted harmless things before and you’ve felt the need to pipe in make a snotty response to contradict my statement. It’s rude. It’s not necessary. We all have our opinions. If you think someone’s opinion is invalid, great. Why can’t you simply write your own post and tell the models how great they are? Why do you have to seek out every post that you think isn’t life-affirming and write a rebuttal? And again, it wouldn’t be as bad if you went about it a different way. But you insult posters as you’re doing it. I see no point in harassing people simply because they say something I disagree with. Nothing good is going to come from that.

As for the word issue, there is a big difference between a historical book, television show or movie using racially charged words, and someone on a message board throwing out those terms in a discussion about acceptance. Intent has nothing to do with it. There’s no reason to go haphazardly using a word when you know it’s offensive. There’s no purpose to it other than to agitate a situation. And who says you have to write “The N word.” All you had to do was not spell the word out. You wrote it several times, because that’s the type of person you are. And the fact that at that time you thought nothing of typing that word several times is pretty appalling. Someone can call a model fat and you jump down their throat. But you can write “n***er” several times and that’s okay? If you can’t see the hypocrisy in that, I don’t know what to tell you.

So, you want to continue. So, if you dislike a haircut, someone else can not like it? I used to be a hairdresser so I can have very valid opinions about haircuts. I can see why a particular cut has been chosen. And as for the N&#$@$ thing. I don’t remember who I respond to, from week to week, so I did not know it was you. That word DESERVES an intelligent, adult conversation and an intelligent acknowledgment of it. I thought about you several times, without knowing I was thinking of you. As I wrote you then, there is a book entitled N#@$%&, in which that word is discussed in depth, to educate all about it. AVOID libraries and book stores, in case that book is there. I don’t remember both TV programs, but I believe one was the superb show, Taboo, with Tom Hardy. In it that word was used in the dialogue and I wondered how you handled that, if you watched it.

It is one thing CALLING you that (which I would NEVER do). It is another thing mentioning a word THAT EXISTS. A gay man does not want to be called a F$#%@$, but he can say and hear the word if it is not being used meanly. Women do not want to be called a C%#$, but they can say and hear the word if it is not being used meanly. I agree with Louis CK that saying the phrase “the N word” is worse than just saying the word. Everyone knows what the “N” word is. It is kind of childish and silly, BUT it is how it has become. You may have noticed that I have NEVER used that word again. I get why, as a black man, you were not sure of what was in my (a stranger’s) heart. I can not UNDO it though.

This place became a place where some come to let a performer know he is too black, or ugly or yucky, or whatever. I used to bring in other topics to take the posters’ minds off of throwing darts at the performers and come after me instead. And remember, I am talking TO the performers, just in case they read the posts. You guys are talking to each other. Criticism, just for the sake of criticism, just to have something (anything) to criticize, is a pet peeve of mine. I see it as being so harmful and hateful. I believe in compliments and encouragement, just for the sake of compliments and encouragement, just to have something to be complimentary and encouraging about. As for being blocked, I could care less. In fact, I prefer it. I can then just let the performers know how handsome or cute or sexy they are, and why I think so, and then I am out of there. So block me. I LOVE that Kevin, in particular, has blocked me. He is one who wants to criticize just for the sake of criticizing. I can counter his posts, for the performers, and not have to deal with Kevin.

So do you now feel heard and understood and complete in what you need to say to me, or is there still more?

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BUT Hunter was def into Randy. He was worshipping Randy’s hot bod and dick.

I’m good thanks. I can live my life and still respond to nonsense. But thank you for your concern. I do apologize, because I was under the impression that badgering someone until they submit to a specific pov is the way things are handled here. That seems to be how you operate, so I’m simply following your lead. You are so wrapped up in telling people what they should and should not say that you are just as evil as the people you claim are so horrible. We’re all adults here. If you can’t find a way to promote good things about the models without taking rude digs at other posters, that says something about you. If I write something about not liking a model’s haircut, I shouldn’t have to deal with you making an attacking post and talking about how their follicles are magical. It’s juvenile and petty. Not everything has to be a battle. But you choose to make it so. That’s why so many people have you blocked, because you’re rude. Plain and simple. Your approach is all wrong, so whatever message you’re trying to get across will never be received.

As for the racist thing, you still don’t get it. Claiming to be pro models of color is incongruous to repeatedly typing a slur word. I brought up the word being inappropriate and you still typed it. Several times. I’m a Black man and I didn’t even use the word. Again, we’re adults, so you should’ve been able to find a workaround to convey your message without using a slur. Why would you have the audacity to continually post something that someone is telling you is offensive? You, who goes on and on about not hurting someone’s feelings? That’s why I say you’re a fraud.

It is, and Thank you sooo much!!

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