Jason my philosophy is best to ignore the tough negative comments. If you dont like some one or their performance (after all this is Porn not an Oscar winning performance) then its best to be constructive rather than vicious. I do think that these guys in porn are providing entertainment ‘A Fantasy’ for us the viewers and good on them for doing that as it has kept me entertained for hours. Also I dont bother getting into arguments with others re comments I disagree with, as life is too short and I am not going to change their opinion which they are entitled to.

Porn is not real life but the performers are real people. :0)

That is absolute garbage. Provide quotes of where I said it or just shut up.

I’m gay, proudly so, but also respect the performers, the industry, the bloggers, and I’m not quick to be derogatory to anyone, gay/straight/male/female. I like to challenge others thoughts.

Ideally I’d prefer seeing JUST two guys together, but I’m not representative of every viewer out there.

You just like being hateful.

I agree with some points, but I think some comments are too general and assuming. Some tops are such great tops, let them keep on doing it. Same with bottoms. There are many reasons at play. There may even be physical issues.

Surely there is enough porn out there.

That is about their conditions agreed to with their partner, and the trust of a long term person, not homophobia.

Stick with what u know best

Again — porn tops aren’t necessarily exclusive tops. Many will bottom for their BFs and hubbies. Yet, they are fine with fucking guy after guy in porn. That’s a problem!

I’ve never tried bottoming — but don’t think I’d like it. I’d be willing to try it if I was in love with a hot guy and he wanted to try it. But if neither of us liked it — would probalby not have anal sex at all — and I’d be okay with that. There are plenty of other things we could do — and sex isn’t the be all/end all. But porn isn’t real life — and I just get tired of it being so one-sided — especially lately!

Uncomfortable bottoms can be sexy. But I have seen guys in porn whom will fake pain initially — and then command the top go deeper. You just can’t accept porn tops at face value. I think the problem is more likely they are uncomfortable being seen as bottoms — rather than being uncomfortable as a bottom. I do concede that for porn — some guys just don’t want to bottom, but I still feel it has more to do with ego than anything else. And certainly some guys only want to be dominated. I’d rather just see men enjoying each other — give and take — not one giving and one taking. It’s a shame that more guys who do give/take won’t do it in porn. .

Hmmmm well you do know that on this blog we are hard crowd to please at times lol….

Absolutely

Again, you’re not gay, you regularly praise heterosexuality here and promote the idea that gays must be “converted” to straight sex because “pussy feels so good”. And that IS homophobic.

I totally agree that certain things would be nice in porn, like seeing that top-only bottom (and not appear in pain, uncomfortable and clearly not aroused) like his partners have, but hey I guess all the varieties of porn performers help make it have something for everyone, and we need to respect each performer’s limits.

So are you completely 100% versatile, totally equal in your sexual needs with every male partner you have had? I really hate it when gay men turn on each other and try to make thing homophobic that aren’t.

You know nothing about me. There is nothing homophobic about what sexual acts you prefer!

I didn’t mean it was you that said it, but others do.

Fair enough although some of us just like the models to be versatile. I would not say quit the porn business as that’s their choice of course but I just dont watch their scenes which is my choice.