I just happened to see this years later, but you were spot on with these comments. I wish I’d seen this and chimed in sooner.

I would be interested to know why Clark had such a long hiatus in the 1st place. I always thought that was strange. Clearly he needs to make the money and I’m sure Austin has work. And it’s not like he had such a gruelling schedule to justify a long rest. Oh, yeah, there was the medical issues, so there’s that. Def things going on BTS.

One can only hope. Being a dick is a really difficult habit to break.

I think too there are probably some things he just honestly isn’t expecting. I’d like to think he had no clue Blake had been involved in such a mess. The fact he hasn’t had him back pretty much says as much. His involvement with Clark seems different, I think there is a lot that isn’t being shared.

If anxiety and depression are issues for them I don’t think weed is the answer for sure. I could be wrong – hell there are a millions strains of it now. I have never seen it work. There are a ton of homeopathic treatments for anxiety and depression, as health conscious as both Clark and Quinn are I would think they would look into them.

I am an awful sucker for “fixer uppers”. It took therapy and a very patient sane person (HB) to make me see that such things are waay out of my control. As for Clark’s racial issues – things like that are taught. Nobody wakes up one day and says “Gee, this would be a great day to become a biggot.” I hope that life teaches him otherwise.

I was just about to type what you just commented. I think if one smokes too much weed day in and day out, it tends to magnify one’s negative qualities. It’s what we used to call a Burnout. My brother was one (still is) and instead of being cool & mellow, he became a first class dick to everyone. It got to the point where the family stopped calling him. Don’t get me wrong, he was a dick before, but he’s intolerable now. I’ve watched a few minutes here & there of Clark’s “live” videos on Twitter and smoking weed seemed to be all he did and thought about doing. Just sayin’.

I tend to agree with you. Austin is co-owner of the site and he seems only responsible for content and making sure he delivers a good product. I agree that he doesn’t care about models being PC so long as it’s not over the top. Agree or not, I’m not mad at him for that. It’s just too much to get involved in all that messy shit.

He’s one of those (or the one person, I still question how many of these comments are shadow accounts) who continues to rant about how we are all depressed self-hating gays for finding straight men attractive.

There’s no debate when it comes to FACTS. You can continue to justify and live in your delusion. Deluded people always think other people aren’t “smart”.

Maybe he meant he wouldn’t top a Black guy? Clearly loves Black cock in his ass. He’s one of those

With all do respect, you aren’t smart enough to really talk to about this stuff…your comments are so factually wrong and based solely on your opinion/feelings that this is how it feels to me when I debate climate change with someone who thinks it’s not real. I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt that you aren’t as ignorant as you come across, but you are so headstrong that you can not bring yourself to ever concede one point that you may be even slightly wrong…and I can’t talk to those kind of people.

Sure, it does sounds beautiful. Beautiful can still be boring. One person’s boring can also be another person’s excitement.

Which is why policing someone else sexual desires is ridiculous, as MK does in each evaluation he drops on us.

It was like dating a really hot Dr. Jeckle/Mr. Hyde, horrific traffic record, glove box loaded with unpaid tickets – spending like he was Rockefeller, stacks of unpaid bills stashed everywhere, wild stories… AND shittons of crazy hot sex. Yeah it was heaven lol.

They say all things happen for a reason, I have come to believe that is true.

Now SEE! Every time *I* make that distinction some fucking know it all tells me that BPD got rolled into Bipolarism and is no longer an “official” illness on it’s own. My blanket internal reply is usually “like fuck it is”.

I had an X who suffered from both – actually it’s everyone around them suffering but that is a story for another time. I feel like a Unicorn just meeting another Unicorn right now just knowing you made the distinction!

The logic for rolling them together “I’m told” is because one exists inside the other… I don’t know – more likely bipolar was easier to SAY. I actually enlisted the help of a therapist for myself to try and help me understand this guy, and navigate getting him help as he was making ME feel like the crazy one.

Lord.. he was gorgeous too. Long story short – the therapist wound up helping me find the guts to break up with him. It was my first honest to GOD broken heart. I don’t think anything is more difficult than leaving someone you love to save yourself. No doubt what turned me into the”runaway boyfriend”.

Ha! I could squeeze you right now. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/93aab9757d792a4d82999e5832913f5f843bcf3d30a6a585fdb51ba7ea20f93d.gif

Here we go again with the nonsense of comparing porn which involves people fucking to movies. They aren’t the same, no one in a movie needs to get stimulated to perform. Porn is sex which requires stimulation. Porn stars love to think they’re actors, they aren’t. They are prostitutes, in a regulated industry. I’m not even going to go over that rubbish about porn not being a reflection of real life sexual practices. Porn portrays infidelity, hookups, prostitution, lust etc. All of which are daily sexual practices by people in the world. Stay in your delusion.

You are wrong. Porn is a reflection of real life sexual FANTASY not real life sexual relations. If you think that porn is real life, I stand by my comments that you are unable to separate reality from fantasy. Porn is just like any movie…sure, pieces of it are real, but Charles Xavier is not a real person, he is a character portrayed by an actor in a fake bubble called a movie….with props, direction, scripts, wardrobes, make-up, etc….just like porn.

I said their case was special because of an entirely different reason, but I’ll stop right there because people will think I’m lunatic if I continue on.

I can give respect when some of them try to make it big in porn, but when they reveal they leave their education for this, it’s disheartening. Somehow they still believe that making it big in porn will make you succeed without realizing it’s just another entertainment industry with different packaging.

I can relate to that. Separating performer and real persona is a hard thing. I see people choose not wanting to know their favorite performer’s dirt because they can’t bear to have their heart broken and that’s one way to keep you sane.

Porn is a reflection of reality in real life. No matter how you try to justify it; the plots are usually a reflection of people’s sexual experiences and infidelity. It portrays people’s everyday sexual practices. It becomes your fantasy when you lust after those sexual activities and practices you’ve never had.

I couldn’t careless how you or anyone else choose to live. It’s none of my business, it only becomes my business if we’re involved. But, I will give my opinion which I’m entitled to, and call a spade a spade without reservation. I am not one who sugarcoats shit to please anyone. That’s like sweeping the dust under the carpet to make the house look tidy, yet it’s still dirty. From I never called you out personally, you shouldn’t be bothered.

Your inability to dissociate porn and sexual fantasy from real life is unusual. Your comments on this board are often simplistic and based in absolute black and whites; that is not how the world works. You swing from extremes of someone who is a douchebag and place them in the same analogy with a serial killer.

I really find it useless to have these conversations with you because when someone is as rigid in their ideology as you are, you are incapable of removing yourself from the equation and reviewing another’s perspective. Therefore, I will move on. You continue to judge me while I allow you to live in your world happily outside of the grays.