In my 20s, I couldn't cum from fucking yet. Overall I was gradually fucking raw more often than wrapped despite the risk, but prep was still many years away and I was trying to stay neg, so I got very little practice. I could cum from getting sucked by the right guys, and in particular I found one guy in a public park who began to suck me regularly. No hands, just beautiful tongue and lip action which to me is the mark of a true blowjob. Anyway, in my mid 30s, I really got into bareback sex to the point where I wasn't willing to wrap at all, but it wasn't until I met a specific bottom that I got to fuck regularly, and he made no demands that I pull out. He wanted to be bred so I got to practice on him until I got good at it. From then on, I never had to pull out again, and I spent a lot of time thinking about all the fucks I wish I could do over!

As much sex as these porn stars are having from the moment they turn 19 or 20 (more in a month than I was getting in a year in my 20s), they're getting the wrong kind of practice. I think many of them (A) have TOO much sex so that they are never pent up like I was. Some sexual frustration is healthy for virility. (B) Their sex is dictated not by what turns them on but by directors' demands. You can look at someone like Marco Paris, Tyler Reed, or Colby Chambers and immediately recognize that although they are fucking for an audience, they also fuck with a sense of freedom. They direct their own scenes and they make breeding a priority, so they cum in guys effortlessly. Guys like Mason Lear and Jess are hypervirile and they breed whoever they fuck whether they want to or not (and of course they always want to). Mason Lear trained himself to use his own cum as lube for his scenes because he couldn't really slide into someone without immediately cumming, and the same seems to be true for Jess. Sean Cody used to treat that stuff as bloopers until he was smart enough to tell the guys to stop fighting their orgasms — when you want to cum, let it happen, and we can always shoot a follow-up fuck later or the next day. Other porn companies pay per act and don't want to give the performers any permission to earn more per orgasm or to do a two-minute fuck that isn't useable as a standalone scene, so you get a lot of guys who could do more sexually but who spend all day training themselves to hold it in rather than to let it out.

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Idk I suppose all straight or bi men can cum from fucking women otherwise they would never father a child lol. Idk why all gay men wouldn't be capable of cumming from fucking ass (unless their penis has some issues ,same with other sexualities). As said by me before a lot of gay men who have to cum with cuts on studio set have no problem to do it on their OF- another example is Brody Meyer- his ass must feel really good and he must turn on his tops a lot because majority of his studio and OF tops cum second after they pull out (his NakedSword scene with Heath Halo f.e)- as a top he came from fucking only once to my knowledge on his OF.
Yeah they can identify as straight but being able to cum from fucking man is a very clear indication u enjoy sex with them.

Like u can't tell me that Jess or Jax or Dawson or whoever cumming all over bottoms smooth taint and balls is not enjoying it. It makes them indistinguishable from state where they would id as bi (although I think Dawson and Jess at some point id as bi or non-str8 at least).

About directors I always wondered whats the deal with cumshots cause its so random.
Like in str8 porn most of men cum right after their dick leave pussy for obvious reason.
In gay porn its so random like FilouFit first scene with Ashton Summers was unedited (giant) cumshot but later he would need edits. Damien Night in most of his studio work also cum wo edit even when filming with MEN.

Sometimes top would cum from fucking a guy in one scene but need an edit in another- example being Princeton Price fucking Donte Thick in ActiveDuty where he came second after but in thei Nextdoor scene there is edit.

Or Infamous Malik Delgaty who id as str8 (although Joey Mills said its bs and he was sexting him)- with guys he cant cum so they cover it up with facial – with women he fucks with little to no cuts and cum on their pussy after few strokes- and in one interview he was calling his female costars "trash" so its not like he found them attractive.
CF girls also weren't attractive (Ashley lol) but guys were busting load far and huge without any cuts.

Yes, I think three factors are at work: one, can the guy cum from fucking at all (there are lots of guys who don’t know how to do it, and even Vander once told me it wasn’t easy for him). Two, can they get turned on from what they’re doing on set. I could NEVER get hard with a woman, and never tried to, but Sean Cody and Corbin Fisher have changed my sense of gay and straight. I think guys can legit identify as straight and still breed men. For sure it happens in prison, guys learn to like fucking each other because they have no choice, but give them a choice and they go back to women. Three, does the director care about CFF. The vast majority do not care, and actively interfere to accomplish other things that are meaningless to me. Add Adam Snow to your list, and thank you for giving me that list because I only know Dato’s work. Adam has cum in at least four scenes that I’ve seen recently, a couple of times he shot totally hands free. But with Carnal, I’m not sure I’ve ever seen him cum from fucking and most times, his orgasm is fake. Given that Legrand seems like he lives in a world where condoms never existed, even before PrEP, it’s baffling that he now generates so much fake stuff. Why bother barebacking if you’re going to fake the ending anyway? Why not go full softcore and fake the whole thing? I guess I know the answer, a lot of people can’t tell fake from real. (That’s how Trump got elected twice, but that’s another story.)

Idk Chris is commenting on lpsg and said Rocky is bi, also he said he is best friends with him and in other comment that he dislike g4ps so thats another deduction.
For some reason I am inclined to think guys who can cum from fucking male ass are turned on by men due to them being able to cum from fucking women and making assumption they were turned on by women.

Also directors can fuck up this thing- I saw openely gay guys who basically never cff in their studio scenes but when they do OF they almost always cff- like Dato Foland,Troy Daniels, Beaux Banks and tons of others.

I always think Rocky is one notch below them in that regard. Some guys can kinda tune out and bust from the sensation. Most can’t, but I think a small handful can. I don’t think every single creampie top at Sean Cody was totally gay. Jax is one such — if he was gay, he didn’t give me the impression of being as into the sex as Jess, David, Jarek, Abe, etc.

I think Rocky or Jess are at least as turned on by sex they are having as Roman since they cum as soon as they pull out- in str8 scenes its pretty common amd the reason is obvious so its the same in gay porn.

Ohhhh I see, thanks!

P.S. The saddest of RIP's for Colton Ford. Met him once years ago, and he was super nice.

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No, not a mistake, I was making a comparison. Watching Roman fuck always convinces me that he's having the sex he would have with or without a camera. He's a gay man having gay sex. He's not quite the premature-for-fun ejaculator that Jess is, but both men seem to delight in nutting "too soon." Rocky is a good cummer, but he's basically still more like Connor except able to fuck to completion.

And even here, Rocky is more calculated; however, the fun is that despite his thinky attitude toward when to bust and his careful choreography … no spoilers, just check it out.

Roman? Did you perhaps comment on the wrong scene by accident? Cos damn, your review makes me wanna check it out!

@amazingdeegee:disqus omg, have you guys seen the end of this scene? I just saw it today, and it might be Rocky's best yet. The only criticism of it, consistent with what you're saying Dee, is that it's kinda obvious that they're trying to "stage" the cumshots to be simultaneous. Obviously it's hotter when the fucking and the cumming are totally spontaneous. When Roman busts, it's clearly because bareback sex turns him on and he's held out as long as he could. The whole business of trying to sync up the orgasms can be a little distracting. I think you'll understand when you see it why I'm slightly knocking the scene and also why I'm impressed as hell by it.

Sadly, tho, he's just so passionless during sex.

Me either, not when he is still so good at cumshots (which is why I prefer him as top) and when the standards around him are regressing to Helix. I wish someone would have the desire to invest in new talent even at risk of briefly losing money.

Sure is!

In fact, I wish he flipped/bottomed more! And with equally attractive guys 😅