It Takes A Village for Gay Sex

Imagine a world where we make love with our lovers and all of the people around us celebrate our love-making with us—or even help create the space for it to happen. If we want the whole world to embrace us as gay lovers, the best place to start is in our own home, in our own lives. We hope this video will inspire more and more of us to look for ways we can be supportive of other gay men in our community—especially by helping give our friends a sense of safety and support in their sex lives! Do all of your friends have safe spaces to make love and make noise? Have you ever encouraged two friends to have sex in your living room, with no ulterior motive other than the joy of creating a safe place for your friends to celebrate their sex lives? So next time your buddy and his buddy start making out on the couch, see what it’s like to hold them in your heart and ask yourself how you can support them. Do they need water? Lube? Music? Food? A blanket? Tell them, in words or in actions, “You’re welcome here. Welcome home, Lovers."