‘nelly’ is very derogatory, implying that the person is less than a man. you can pretend youre not making a judgemental statement if you wanna be in denial about your own internalized homophobia! ha!

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“I wasn’t making any sort of judgement call. I really don’t care that he’s a bottom.”

I posted that earlier in the pertinent thread. Try to keep up. Or is merely pointing out that someone is a bottom denigrating them?

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I wasn’t making any sort of judgement call. I really don’t care that he’s a bottom.

I was trying to be… antithetical, I guess is the word. He said something about a “god top”. Well, what’s the opposite of a “god top”? A nelly bottom would be my guess.

FeydRautha: I am still to understand the connotation of being a top or a bottom. Either way we are having sex with another guy which qualifies us as gay. Neither the top or the bottom is less gay for doing sex that way. The idea is to have sex the best way we can and enjoy it to the max regardless if we are topping or bottoming.

If Tyler bottoms or tops it is up to him and the lucky ones that share his bed with him. The rest of us can admire or even be jealous of his dates and that is the extent of that.

So if Tyler from time to time glorifies being a bottom or a top that has to do with his mood at the time.

Well, pardon me. When you go around talking about “god tops”, I’d assume you took some pride in being a bottom.

As for Pollyanna, it’s a term of endearment, on account of his unflappable positivity.

Not that Tyler needs anyone to come to his defense but let me clear something up for you Feyd. Calling someone a “nelly bottom” is indeed a bash, or at least most would take it that way. Same with the pollyanna comment, but you knew that, right?

Who’s bashing you, Pollyanna? There’s nothing wrong with being a proud piggy bottom.

Didn’t you once say that SC’s Harley lost some of his appeal (to you) after he bottomed? Those are the things that give me a chuckle.

You nelly bottoms crack me up!